I was talking with my son today about the world and how not everyone is fortunate enough to grow up with a loving dad. A loving dad who plays basketball with them every single day after work. A father that will turn on music and dance like a dork just to have fun with his kids. Or a daddy who will stomach (literally) several kicks to the groin just because his kids want to wrestle. I am not perfect but I do all of those things just because I know what it is like not to have that love from a father.
Don’t get me wrong, I still had family in my life but just a different kind. I lost my immediate family at 5 years old but a giant, loving family was already being orchestrated for me by my Heavenly Father. My grandparents raised me and did their best and did a great job. I just wasn’t the easiest kid to raise. And my grandparents hadn’t picked up the latest copy of ‘How to raise a little kid who is a sole survivor of a family/murder suicide’. (Note the sarcasm!) My grandpa did a great job of playing catch with me out in the yard every now and then and as an adult with kids of my own, those memories are still close to my heart. I want my kids to have those memories. OH MAN! Did I get sidetracked again. Sometimes reading the blog of someone who has A.D.D and, who knows what else, can be interesting.
In fact, anytime I email friends, I always add a code word at the bottom just so I can make sure they read my whole email because my intentions are to keep it brief but once I start writing, I can’t stop. (Isn’t that a Miley Cirus song?) #sidetrackedagain
Back to the lecture at hand (90’s Hip Hop reference), this was supposed to be about how I got the opportunity today to talk with my son about being a father and mentor to someone. How, even though I didn’t have that so-called father in my life, I had several people in my life that stepped up as mentors and helped me in my times of need. I thank God for the father/son moments where I can share some of my limited wisdom with my oldest son as we shoot hoops or other activities. I will attach a documentary about fatherlessnes that I was a part of a few years ago. Check it out if you haven’t seen it. There are some great stories in the film. I recommend the whole movie but if you are short on time, my story starts at around 28 minutes. If you are still reading this, the code word is elbow. What the heck is the point of poison ivy? Anyone? -cK
2014 was a crazy and eventful year! I realized as I am writing this, that I say ‘crazy year’ almost every time I post an update. But I guess that’s a good thing. Who wants a boring life? Not me. I was talking to my wife about this last night. We feel so busy yet it’s a good thing to be running around all the time. With all the things coming up we are anxious and ‘on our toes’ to see what doors God opens up for our family.
My third child was born on June 24th of 2014 and we couldn’t be happier. Well, I lied. I think I could be happier if Read the rest of this entry »
Performed by Dylan and his friend Johann at the CLPS talent show.
This routine is about the conversation that must have happened between the Lord and Noah.
We are honored to be a part of such a great documentary focusing on the ever growing problem of fatherlessness in our world today. My story is in the film as well as some other really great stories. CIY did a great job on this film. Its about 52 minutes long. Let me know what you think. Enjoy!